Caring for a close one requires certain tactics... if care, is expressed in a way thats not comprehensive to one, the effect can be disastrous though the intention is good..

It is through a process of interactions and maybe unhappy events that people come to terms or learn to come to terms with the other party's way of expression... arguments that comes along brings greater interaction and learning about one another.

This process of learning and understanding may take forever... cuz we are always learning new things about our close one... no wonder there is a saying that goes, it takes a min to fall in love.... and a lifetime to get along.. how true...