Its not for someone who is self centered...
Its a simple thing.....Definitely not for someone self centered.. and who doesn't know what is sacrifice and compromise....
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Its a simple thing.....Definitely not for someone self centered.. and who doesn't know what is sacrifice and compromise....
We have come this far... been through so much... good times, bad times, ups and downs...Each time, it makes me realise how dear you are to me, i wanted to love and protect you like my little baby...
We always say we want the best of everything, even when it comes to choosing our lifetime partner... we simply want to choose the best one. Sad to say, its not something that we can control... cuz there is this element called love, and once you fell into it, its not just a simple logic of choosing the best.
Learning is all about progress that one takes to accomplish something. One talk about steep learning curve or linear and so on... the kind of learning curve brings about a whole lot of difference in experience. Steep is good, cuz its fast and linear is not bad either as there is constant progression.
Feeling contented is a wonderful experience, but we often forget to appreciate. Or maybe we don't know how to cuz we are too greedy to know how to appreciate. we crave for more to make ourselves even happier, such that in the process of doing so, we achieve the opposite sometimes.
Sometimes, we wonder if people with intellectual disability are happier, they seem to have lesser troubles and seem to be satisfied with what they have. True to an extend, but I believe its the extend of happiness and depression experienced that differs. Thankful that normal people like us, in such a short lifetime that we have on this earth, we are able to experience such emotions deeply. Whether its happiness, whether its hurtful, it is sweet, it is painful. Grateful for these... I feel alive.
Once there was a backpacker exploring a country's marketplace. he came across an antique vase which attracted him at first sight. after asking for the price, he bought it without hestitation. along the way, villagers told him that there was a mountain that offers spectular view at the peak and that it was definitely worthed it to ascend to the peak. Excited by that, the backpacker decided to do so.
True enough, he managed to climb to the peak with his fit body and determination. the view was what was promised.. indeed breathtaking. being a photographer by profession, he took some spectular pictures and after admiring the scenery, he descend.
when he arrived at the foot, the vase was as expected... gone.
the backpacker entered his pictures for the annual exhibition.
when he was at the event itself, something caught his attention... a similar view from the peak.. but with a twist... the vase!
The vase was in the foreground with the scenery as the background. this picture was awarded the picture of the year, but the photographer was just a commoner who happened to ascend the same peak as he did. the difference being, this commoner could not bear to see such a beautiful thing being left alone at the foot of the mountain, being weathered by the strong wind, sun and rain. he knows that it would be trouoblesome carrying something fragile up the mountain, but his perservance and care for the beauty overcomed all that. at the peak, it strucked him that the beautiful piece of workmanship, if taken into a picture with the works of nature, might strike some kind of chemistry... and there it goes, it won him the honour.. indeed.
To the backpacker, when he saw that picture, he was dumbfounded with mixed feelings.. he once owned the vase, he gave it up.. and missed it... . regret.. or resign to fate that it is just not meant to be...or maybe.. he is just blinded by his desires to succeed in ascending the mountain.. as simple as that...
Its not about where we go, what we do or how long we are going to spend together, its the prescence that matters... a smile, a look and a touch is all that are needed...
Often, people don stop to reflect and check their direction in life until they are feeling low or are in rough times... and when they do, they realised that they are lost...
The picture of happiness:
Happiness encompasses both ups and downs in Life. One needs to experience both to know happiness. The Circles represents age, just like the rings in the trunks of trees. As we go through life, we face smooth and rough times as presented by the textured squares. Often, there are both good and bad times in a rough patch as well. As years passes and age increases, the circle gets bigger and so does the picture of happiness.
Every little kid in our country is being placed into a pair of shoes commerically designed by a shoemaker, when they were as young as 3 or 4 yrs of age...and then, they were forced to run a marathon in that pair of shoes. The shoes' cutting fitted a group of them and they excelled... running really fast ahead. For the majority, they each spent a different number of years trying to make their feet grow to fit into the shoes, and when they succeed, they being to run faster to catch up with their fast counterparts...